Getting The Timing Right for Dating

Posted by admin 10/03/2010 0 comments
At that time one generally thinks that the timing was not good for them. Now you understood the value of timing. Even if anyone is perfect to get the woman in front, he may general fail due to the wrong timing. Timing has a great part in doing with our lives and surely we can't go back and change things, but certainly we can look for the signs of bad timing so that we should not break our chances of getting our dream girl.



There are some timing issues with events and life circumstances. Like you met someone to find out that she has begun a relationship with someone just a few days ago, or she recently had a breakup and not ready for a new relationship, or she is in some family crisis now. Don't get disheartened, because it was just a wrong timing and not your fault. Accept it, as it is life.

If your proposal gets accepted, then you can control the flow of the date. Generally people choose the weekends for a date as because they would have no work the next day and so can enjoy the date to the fullest. It's a great planning but also a fact that many people plan their weekend off from a lot before time, so you mayn't get a seat in your favorite restaurant or disco. This would break off the mood. Also if you had called the girl on a day on which she could have visited her favorite orchestra, then it would become a downfall for you as she would be preoccupied with the events that would be happening there. Also they would be too formal on a weekend. Try going out on a week day as this would make the date a more relaxed one due to the stress from work and a break in schedule. Yes it may hamper the glamor of the weekends but it will also decrease the competition of her being in another glamorous even rather than being with you. It's better if one starts the first date on a weekday as because you would make her feel more relaxed and that would open up new dates in the nearby arriving weekends.

Also you should know how to come up when your girl says no for a date. Don't lose hope for the silly reasons she gives you as because she is telling a lie, but mind it, it could be true. When asking a girl out, remember to be flexible and give her options while asking out. Also while asking out, don't be too much available as this would make the girl think that you not her worth.

Timing again plays its role when you are out at a date. Let you are at a dance club. Just don't ask her to dance when she has just met you and a big group of friends, this would make her feel uncomfortable. See for signs. Also don't ask the girl for a dance at the last song of the disco until you both are not crazy about it. Again read the signs. So also being to flexible and being semi available, read the person in advance if you know them already so that you can know when she would be bet available and you can get more positive responses.

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